I never thought it would come to this. That I would have to write a childish blog post, addressing it to possible strangers or even friends, hiding behind their screens. I would never know who these people are. Jealousy can stem for a variety of reasons. I am not gonna run a rant where I say, "Oh I love my haters and blah blah!" Like I said earlier, no one likes their haters.
But I have learned something over the last few months. Those anonymous people who request mushy blogs and want details of my love life actually ask so they can sit in their chair and burn their ass on fire. You wanna sit there and feel envious and curse me for having what I have, go for it. I know people who will stalk my life to a crazy extent. I don't know why. Yes, I put my life out there and write whatever's on my mind. I discuss, perhaps, the things that no one would publicly announce. And it is partially my fault.
This is why I am making this post! You greedy gossip diggers, are not gonna get shit out of this blog anymore. Go watch Gossip Girl instead! The truth is, no matter what I post here, someone will hate me for something. And at the same time, friends will be friends. If you don't like me, or don't like the life I have - then news flash, I don't live to please any of you. I am thankful to God for the life I have. And I've heard this somewhere, something about winning attracts losers with opinions. That explains the anonymous comments I get which are full of SHIT.
I am sorry I was confident enough to talk about my life - and putting my mistakes as well as weaknesses out there. I am sorry I reply to those full of shit comments with a great comeback. So, if you have nothing better to do than to sit behind a screen and criticize people for things you cannot do - then I can't help you. Someone commented on my weightloss blogs, "You're still fat." I can bet you anything that the person who wrote it is one sluggish overweight girl who probably hasn't lifted her ass off the couch to do anything about her weight loss.
Someone commented on my love blogs a long time ago saying I am either rich or a gold digger. I replied to that in an entire blog post. My dear friends would actually know how broke I am. I never had such a comment again. Because the people who know me the least somehow have the most to say about me. Not sure how that adds up. If I say I wasn't bothered, I wouldn't be writing this right now. I am definitely bothered, but that doesn't stop or hinder me from exposing my feelings. This purpose of this blog is not to entertain you with my life. I started it for my passion - writing. I will still continue to, without including any personal life details.
My first diary was purchased at the dollar store, when I was in grade 8. When my mom read it, and I got in some DEEP trouble, I moved to some e-Diary back in the day. Then, I finally started blogging here in my late teenage years. It is a platform for me to write about everything that happens in my life. Of course, that will invite all types of people. Publishing something with availability on the internet in itself is an invite for criticism. And I appreciate criticism. I appreciate when people correct facts in my post, and enhance my knowledge. I do not appreciate when sly people comment nasty things, because their jealousy has taken over them. Just saying!
But I have learned something over the last few months. Those anonymous people who request mushy blogs and want details of my love life actually ask so they can sit in their chair and burn their ass on fire. You wanna sit there and feel envious and curse me for having what I have, go for it. I know people who will stalk my life to a crazy extent. I don't know why. Yes, I put my life out there and write whatever's on my mind. I discuss, perhaps, the things that no one would publicly announce. And it is partially my fault.
This is why I am making this post! You greedy gossip diggers, are not gonna get shit out of this blog anymore. Go watch Gossip Girl instead! The truth is, no matter what I post here, someone will hate me for something. And at the same time, friends will be friends. If you don't like me, or don't like the life I have - then news flash, I don't live to please any of you. I am thankful to God for the life I have. And I've heard this somewhere, something about winning attracts losers with opinions. That explains the anonymous comments I get which are full of SHIT.
I am sorry I was confident enough to talk about my life - and putting my mistakes as well as weaknesses out there. I am sorry I reply to those full of shit comments with a great comeback. So, if you have nothing better to do than to sit behind a screen and criticize people for things you cannot do - then I can't help you. Someone commented on my weightloss blogs, "You're still fat." I can bet you anything that the person who wrote it is one sluggish overweight girl who probably hasn't lifted her ass off the couch to do anything about her weight loss.
Someone commented on my love blogs a long time ago saying I am either rich or a gold digger. I replied to that in an entire blog post. My dear friends would actually know how broke I am. I never had such a comment again. Because the people who know me the least somehow have the most to say about me. Not sure how that adds up. If I say I wasn't bothered, I wouldn't be writing this right now. I am definitely bothered, but that doesn't stop or hinder me from exposing my feelings. This purpose of this blog is not to entertain you with my life. I started it for my passion - writing. I will still continue to, without including any personal life details.
My first diary was purchased at the dollar store, when I was in grade 8. When my mom read it, and I got in some DEEP trouble, I moved to some e-Diary back in the day. Then, I finally started blogging here in my late teenage years. It is a platform for me to write about everything that happens in my life. Of course, that will invite all types of people. Publishing something with availability on the internet in itself is an invite for criticism. And I appreciate criticism. I appreciate when people correct facts in my post, and enhance my knowledge. I do not appreciate when sly people comment nasty things, because their jealousy has taken over them. Just saying!
Well im kinda iffy on this blog.
ReplyDeleteWhy do you care about what people write? hit delete as a comment.
There are people that write good things, and those are the only ones that should matter.
Actually, your blogs aren't very personal at all. They're very universal in that the topics you discuss are overlapping themes that can apply to many peoples lives, in varying degrees of course...
ReplyDeleteLike your last posts about anger, pain in relationships, the highs, and lows. Your post regarding your foot wear, random make up posts. If theres any conflict, its usually a post geared towards a theme of some sort.
If its a this is how my birthday went, it's a recollection of the day's memories, it seems?
From what I get, you only seem to take certain personal details to enhance the point you make about those themes.
PS. For the you're still fat comment, I just lold. What an ignorant comment.
ReplyDeleteYou're fine. You do it for you. Let your body take its own pace with it.
Don't worry about timelines, just stay dedicated.
I do share my personal moments, and get graphic with explanations. But I never involve anything too intimate. I don't know why I still get criticized for it.
ReplyDeleteSomeone sent me an anonymous message saying, "Never earned a day in your life, and got a car sitting at home, must love your parents!"
What the?
I am just astonished at the amount of jealousy that stems from the stuff I write.
ReplyDeleteYou have parents that love you, so obviously they give you nice things?
ReplyDeleteWhat's so bad about that, lol...
This person shouldn't be messaging you, they should be taking the matter up with their OWN parents, as to WHY they don't get nice presents as a token of love.
Now that message is just pure pure jealousy.
Completely illogical, too.
Tell me about it!
ReplyDeleteComplete nonsensical comments from anons. I don't know what's going on. I guess, I should not even reply and hit delete right away.
You cannot argue with idiots. Don't waste your energy on it.
ReplyDeleteSurround yourself with beautiful people, and beautiful moments. In the end it's you and your time. Be wise about who you want to spend it on and with.
Create your own album of gorgeous life experiences :)
Leave the miserable cunts to deal with their own insecurities. Don't do them a favour by pointing out they have issues they need to work on in order to be happier beings.
LOL. You make me HAPPY!
ReplyDelete"Leave the miserable cunts to deal with their own insecurities." - Amen!
Cheers.
ReplyDeleteThere are always miserable cunts who will feel the need to talk about others. Look, if you can expand your vision and feel and fathom things beyond what Person A or B is doing, then you really will. You'll just move beyond the mundane gossip of what Tina had for lunch, or what her boyfriend said to her, or what her friend said, and did.
You have to be a downright miserable little cunt to waste your own time talking about someone else, instead of expanding your own vision and enhancing your own experiences.
You, dearest Aditi, live happy. Let the miserable cunts live with their misery. There is sooo much more to life than what someone else did.
Girl, ur awesome! Don't upset urself cuz of stupid people. Shit talkers will always have something to say no matter what..
ReplyDeleteDon't let them ruin your day!
Stay beautiful alwayss xoxo
^^ Thanks anonymous! :)
ReplyDeleteI love you guys.. thanks for cheering me up and spreading back the positivity that I needed! <3