What is BITCHING?

Hey.
Apparently, there are some women out there who need to shut their traps and shove a raw pickle down their throat to keep that mouth locked up. Unfortunately, because of our urban slang these days, the word "bitching" is used in multiple contexts. Here, I must specify, "bitching" is talking about somebody behind their back in a negative way (i.e. not saying nice things about them).

The male species use this word for nagging, and complaining too (i.e. she keeps bitching at me for not cleaning the goddamn room!) But in this case, I am referring to a woman (a friend's friend). She can't read this blog, but I will make my friend forward the link to her to shut down those flapping lips of hers.

Bitching is when a girl is being spiteful against another.
This is a real life scenario. Listen to this. There's a guy who apparently loves this woman. Let's just say, girls love having guys walk around like little dogs, and they wanna put a leash on them, and take them out for a walk when they wanna show people, feed them when they feel like it, avoid them when they have to, and love them if they wish to. Well, guess what? Nah-uh girl! (yes, I just sucked my teeth and snapped my fingers - no racial reference here).

And, the moment the dog, I mean the guy wants to STOP running and chasing after the girl, she will look for ways to lure him into it again. Yup, that's what we do. Girls girls girls *sigh*
Having a vagina does not certify you to treat a male species like bull crap, or a dog itself. Anyway, no moral lessons here. We all know this. Back to the story.

So, he stops runing after the girl (finally) and talks to MY friend about it. A guy is in distress and he seeks advice. She says, on a generic basis (as I would too), stop chasing after her if she isn't interested in you. Why waste your time and energy, right? Anything wrong said here?
The girl finds out and accuses my friend of BITCHING.

Now, to the woman who is really nothing but attention-seeking, idiotic and delusional..

One, when he was loving you off, you didn't seem to give a shit.
Now, that he doesn't wanna do that, you want him not to move on? You want him to be miserable, chasing around you like a puppy dog? So, you can take your sweet time to make a FUCKING decision about it.
NO! He is not obligated to do so. He is a human being. He has feelings, and if you cannot care for them, then let him live his life, without you (it's gonna be much better, trust me!)

Two, if he seeks advice from another girl, you definitely have jealousy issues there. That you were being talked about. Yes, you were. And not in a good way. So, what should you do about it? Should you not realize what you are doing to him? Or should you bitch at the GIRL he is sharing his feelings with, because you won't hear him out? Bitch, reality check!

Three, is BITCHING in your dictionary "stating the truth?" Because that is what exactly happened here. You need to NOT say a word to my friend, and peep into your own wrong-doings.

Lastly, you are not pissed off because he talked to your friend. You are not pissed off because you were talked about. You are not pissed off because my friend provided a friendly piece of advice or heard him out. You are pissed off because this conversation meant that he will move on, and not chase after your butthole. You are pissed off because you LIKE the attention, and you do not want it discontinued.

And now, I rest my case, your honor.

P.S. A friend said that my blogs are way too long. Hence, I am trying to make them short and concise. Let me in on that.