Be free.

When? And why? There is much more that exists in the world apart from boys. Seriously! All I see and hear is just relationship drama EVERY SINGLE DAY of my life. More than half my friends talk about their boyfriends, soon to be husbands, fuck buddies, friends with benefits etc. All these seem like distinct categories of relationships, but there's one thing in common - emotions. You might even be just screwing someone for the hell of it, and then you start feeling attached. It's a human emotion. You can't deny it. I just watched Friends with Benefits. No, not because guys find Mila Kunis hot. I like JT - don't judge. Merci.

And the whole point of the movie was something similar to this. Even when you shut yourself down emotionally (which is not technically possible), you are still subconsciously indulging yourself in emotional drama. If it were easy to shut down your emotions, the breakup guilt and after-grief would not even exist! You know there's much more to do in life than just worry about boys. Yes, I like hearing gossips and I am much of a gossiper myself. But puhlease, for once.. can you not let it be about guys? It's so sickening.

It is as if every story I hear has the same plot - the boy is cheating, or flirting around, or not treating them right or not doing things their way. Like, if you have so many issues with the relationship - instead of bitching about it, you should try getting out of it. I hate girls who have 2 hours to bitch on the phone about their relationship and then at the end of the day, she'll call her man and say "I love you baby!" Well, if your "baby" finds out how you were running your mouth out in the open and talking dirt about your so-called 'love'.. I don't think he'd even wanna call you anymore. Well, maybe for a booty call or something... ;)

So, the point being.. look around! Stop sobbing.. you've got your friends, parents and your entire social network. Guys and girls come and go. Your friends stick around for you. Appreciate what you've got, bitch less about what you want and aren't getting. Our generation's problems are - "he doesn't spend too much on me," "she doesn't give me space or time to hang out with my boys," "he has too many female friends - that's not right," "she wears slutty clothes in public on purpose," "he doesn't wanna update his relationship status on Facebook," "she doesn't let me go through her phone." Like shut up! Next thing you know people are gonna stress over, "I can't hear the TV while I am eating Doritos." *rolls eyes*

There are MANY more things in the world. Stop letting relationships dictate your happiness. Happiness lies in many other things. Stay happy and healthy :) Cheers!