My life in words, many words.

Monday, September 10, 2012

Don't need your Visa, I need your time.

Okay, beer and sex. Oh oh, guys! Did I just spell out heaven for you? Even though this isn't a direct comparison, but time and attention is what we want. Should we write it down for ya? I mean, how hard is it to understand that we want your TIME. I mean, Rihanna simplified this for you guys - "I want you to make me feel like I am the only girl in the world!" And if you still don't get it - that's quite pathetic, right?

Now, I am not asking for constant attention - nagging and whining is equally annoying to the both of us. So is clingy-ness. All I am asking for is a genuine amount of time and effort to maintain your relationship. Sure, all girls vary in terms of how much they attention they need. But ME - especially being a Libra - need it most of the time. I cannot be the backdrop in a situation. If you guys can post a sticky note in your washroom or something - WOMEN NEED ATTENTION - you'll do much better in your relationships. Every one has work and school. Everyone is busy in their lives. But if you can't make time for your loved ones - then, that's one heck of a crappy relationship.

For me, communication is key. This is why I don't do well with long distance. I don't crave attention at all times, but when I am being wiped out of your schedule and receive no time to even acknowledge daily needs - then it pisses me off. We are not as complex as you claim we are. It's simple. There are a few things that we need, give 'em to us and you'll be happy. It makes us feel special, loved and cared for. And these feelings are important. At least once in a while, they are.

And remember, you're a lucky man if your girl is craving for YOUR attention, not another man's. And if you can't provide her with that, then you're just in plain bad luck. After all, attention isn't a bad thing. It fills the void we have in our lives. 

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