Erratic.

Random. But something occurred to me yesterday related to a situation I witnessed around a friend. Note: I don’t write about people’s personal lives or problems on here. I sure take that idea and write my thoughts about it but I never use names. Plus if you know who you are, you know that I am only writing about it because I care. That is, if you’re reading this. I don’t mean to offend or publicize anyone in any way. Just wanted to clarify that.

I was wondering, whether I should make this part two of the girl’s stupidity post. Now, in a situation where you catch your man cheating, and grant him a second chance, what happens? A grandiose transformation. It’s almost too good to be true. That’s a part of their ‘I got caught’ reflex. They’re probably only sorry because they got caught, not because they truly feel as such. It’s a part of their ‘I am a changed man’ act. Now, some men in minority actually may feel guilty about cheating and truly work hard for a second chance. I am only talking about the douchemonkeys who don’t have any guilt whatsoever about cheating on their girlfriends. And the girls are douchebags if they put up with their ‘nice guy’ act after catching them in the act. 

 They will be sweet to you and say things that you were longing to hear all that while in the relationship. They will also strategically use their knowledge about you to please you exactly the way you want to be pleased. I am not talking about sexual pleasure here. I meant doing/saying things the way you want them to be said or done. This will continue on for a few days until you take him to be a changed man. And being the over-sensitive fools and hopeless romantics we are, we embrace them with open arms once again and literally sign a document to be taken for granted OVER again! The cycle continues, until you break up and make up. Honestly, it makes me sick and tired of such relationships.. just hearing about it from friends. It’s hard to set a number as to how many break-ups should you endure with one person before you walk out on them. I just think, if you’re mentally incapable and truly exhausted and believe that it won’t work out, l e a v e. I cannot stress this enough, once a cheater.. always a cheater. Sometimes, it could be an honest mistake. And some men do change. You be the judge of that. But back to the douchey (I don’t even know if this is a word) people.. Why is it so hard for girls to understand the universal ‘cheating recovery’ practice that men have been using for so long?