Thoughtless and cold.

I may sound a little rude, but I have to get this out there. For people who expect a person to have the same graph of behaviour all throughout - wake up! All of us are human beings and we tend to be low when we go through bad phases. And we tend to be very happy when we go through the good in life. It's only natural if you see someone upset. Yes, being upset does not create solutions, you have to work on things to tackle your problems. But being sad in reaction to certain problems is natural, again.

I don't understand why people take it wrong when you don't as enthusiastic in a conversation as they are expecting you to be. Let it be. Let ME be. I can't be a nice person always. Some things tick me off too. I might not wanna confront you for it always. I may not think it's worth it.

What pisses me off is that people always expect you to be happy. If I am on the bus, listening to ghazals or something through my headphones, I may look unhappy from the expression. That doesn't mean I am depressed. Sometimes, I get pity stares from people. And that pisses me off. Why is a smile so important to show your sanity? People come ask you if you're okay because of your expressions. Pardon me, but I do not wanna be asked by strangers. I may look sad or happy, it's none of your business.

Also, people are not EMO if they phase out for a little while. It just means some people cannot handle their problems with a smile on their face, like you can. I hate this whole categorization where you are deemed either depressed or normal. Honestly, what is the deal with not smiling in society?