The most awaited blog.

I had to title it that because it truly is. Arshia asked me multiple times to write about this. Even Komal agreed with it today. So, I finally thought I would share a few thoughts of mine. Note: this is not for readers with the attention span of a 7 year old. It is intense and long. It requires attention and the non-a**hole factor if you're a guy. For girls, it requires only a little bit of a brain to read. The rest of it is going to be occupied with figuring out what you're gonna do your boyfriend at the end of the post =]

Cheating is a very common issue in relationships. It's broad too. There is no possible way in which I can completely address it in words. Even if I try my hardest, I cannot. So I will be focusing on one aspect of it. 

That oh very special aspect is: Why do girls hunt the other chic down instead of dumping the man?

Does that ring a bell? Hello! The man just cheated on you. With another woman. The most 'probable' guess is that she also does not know that he's cheating. That's why it's called "cheating." If she is in the same vulnerable place as you, what's her fault? Did you like forget to assess your man's fault in the whole thing? 

*sigh*

Well, okay it's granted that most men are a**holes and not faithful. If you're lucky enough to catch him cheating, what do you do? You get mad at him for a few days. He says a few sweet things to you and you're back onto your "foolish mode." He probably says the same fake sweet things to the other one. He makes both of you feel more wanted than the other. He plays his game well. And you spend your energy hunting down the other girl, trying to get her off your man. *Claps*

What does he do? I'll tell you what he does. He gets the last laugh out of it. Yes, girls are sensitive and forgiving in nature. But howwwww on earth do you not know that if he two timed you once, he has the tendency to do it again. It's not a movie. He is not gonna realize your worth in the end and come running to you with a bunch of flowers to get down on his knees and finally propose to you. He is most likely going to continue to be an a** while you forgive him and take him to be a changed man.

Tell me, where is the logic in cussing the other chic? Has anyone noticed that the guy does the least in this situation? The girls are so awfully hyper about dissing each other to bits and make themselves feel better. Feel better about what? How is it going to help the fact that your man CHEATED on you? Unless you have no self-worth and want to be with a man because you can't find another, please stop reading at this point. It is useless for you to go on. I know I sound harsh and blunt but that's how one should be if you don't want to be fooled. If you want to make yourself look stupid, go ahead. 

Sometimes, men cheat for actual reasons other than "effing around." I will address the other side of the spectrum in another blog post. This one is dedicated to the stupidity of girls stalking the "other woman" and scheduling a cat fight with her. Your man is probably going to ask one of his friends to be there while you guys bitch-slap each other to record it on video. He is gonna watch that as a chick flick on a Friday night with a chilled Corona in his hand. 

Note: to the all guys; don't attack me. I know women cheat too. I will probably reference that in a later blog post. This one is only dedicated to your jerky deeds =] Enjoy.

To all the women, who have been cheated upon or currently are - take a lesson. Also, it is an ego-booster for men to see two chics fighting over them. They take pride in that. There is no need getting "her" phone number to cuss her out. Go wear your sharpest heel and kick HIM in the nuts with it. Oh, and the more the merrier. The other chic probably has a pair of heels too. Take her with you =]